Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you!
Today is my birthday, and I am me with a head filled with thoughts and memories. It always surprises me when someone talks about liking birthdays and celebrating them for days on end. That has never been the case for me. In fact, I don’t recall many birthdays that were very much different from any other day.
As a kid, there was one birthday party when I was 10. It was a small gathering of school friends, and I remember every face in the group and most of the presents I received. I still have a couple of them, and they are special treasures. I’m thinking that was also the only time I had a birthday cake which is OK because I’m not a big cake fan.
Turning 16, 18, 21……Those birthdays are barely blips on my screen of life. I was thrilled to get my driver’s license at 16, but 18 and 21 coincided with returning to college away from anyone who might remember or know it was my birthday. With no one making the day special, it didn’t seem so to me either.
During the early years of marriage, the hubby would acknowledge my birthday with a a roughly drawn sketch of a rose with the message to multiply by 12! Those were the best bouquets ever as well as the only ones we could afford.
The most memorable birthday may well be my 40th. The hubby and I were scheduled to have a nice dinner at one of Houston’s better restaurants with another couple. We were all dressed up, but instead of arriving at the scheduled place, our friends delivered me to a crawfish and beer joint where excited voices yelled SURPRISE. What a surprise it was, even to the hubby. There I was in the midst of jeans and boots in my very cute ruffled red cocktail dress having the time of my life. We finished the evening by going to a bar-b-que joint where we danced the Texas two step to the strains of a county/western band. That was quite a night and one of the few times in my life I have been caught totally unaware.
Ten years later, I wasn’t too excited about being 50 and I threatened anyone who suggested doing something special for my birthday. On the day, no one mentioned birthday and I went with friends to an outlet mall about 2 hours from Houston. When we returned that evening, the house was crowded with people, all of whom were there having a good time and celebrating an unbirthday. No one wished me a happy anything, and the hubby got high marks for throwing this party!
Since then birthdays come and go with each one reminding me that I have less time in front of me than behind. Seldom am I with family other than the hubby, but birthdays are made special by warm wishes and many kindnesses from treasured friends who make each one a held tight memory. For that I am grateful as it makes the slate seem less empty.
Well, these are my thoughts on my birth day, and I’m curious about yours. How do you celebrate? Does the celebration last a week, a year? What makes it special?
i so appreciate your visit and the thoughts you leave behind